Archives for 2018

Thursday, Nov. 15, 2018 – Travel Day to McCulley Farms

Thought we'd be waking up to cold and clear skies, but it was still cloudy when we got up at dawn. It took us quite a while to get everything packed up, it's a lot of work when you're on your own like I am now. Hubby's just not strong enough to help much, though he did assist in getting the truck hooked up. We didn't have any trouble getting the horses loaded, though the ramp was a bit slippery and they both slid a bit on the way up. On my list of things to do is to try to solve that problem. We headed for the dump and managed to clear out the gray water in the front tank, but discovered that the second hookup for the gray and blackwater from the bathroom had a very strange setup and no connections to make it work. The previous owner of the trailer had given me a huge plastic bag full of hoses and adapters, but none of them actually worked with the setup that was on there. Weird! Anyway, we opted to just travel that way, and would solve the problem when we got to McCulley Farms, where we hoped to get a sewer hookup, and thus have the chance to fix the problem. Once we got out of the campground, we had an uneventful drive to Jasper, FL, though we did have to stop once for gas at the only diesel station in town, so naturally it was 50 cents more a gallon than everywhere else. One thing that we saw on the trip were a lot of downed trees along I-10 from Hurricane Michael, which came through the panhandle a few weeks ago. Even though it was pretty far inland, there were whole forests that had been decapitated, with 12-15 foot high stumps just broken off. It was obvious from the many crushed guardrails just how many trees had come down, and there were work crews all along the way. Plenty more work to be done, no doubt! We arrived at McCulley Farms around 4:00, (having lost an hour from changing time zones), and met up with owner Richard, who was happy to let us have a sewer site at no extra charge. We found a great spot out in the open, though it was quite a walk to the stalls again. Unfortunately the stalls aren't in that great shape, none of them have latches so I had to use their lead ropes to tie them shut. Mostly metal gates chained onto half-fast posts, and a lot of the boards that make up the other walls look like they'd been kicked, broken and repaired more than once. A bit disappointing considering the fairly expensive price tag to come here. Can't wait till we can actually just high-line them nearby! Anyway, we got ourselves hooked up, and I spent a little time sorting out the sewer problem, managed to take an end off an old split pipe and put it on the end of the attachment to the drain. I have to say, as many wonderful attributes as this trailer has, the plumbing system is NOT one of them. Discreetly hidden behind a couple of compartment doors, which open at about a 45 degree angle to the ground, when you open the door they're in your way, and the actual fitting for the hose is way inside that compartment! You can't actually see it unless you're on the ground looking up. The previous owners had added a short piece of hose to make it more accessible, but the end doesn't fit the typical drain hose, which was my problem. Anyway, I got it fixed up so that it was usable, at least temporarily, because the hose end doesn't fit exactly right, but I can solve that problem later. I drained the black water and rinsed with the gray water, then set it up to use for our stay. That all done, we relaxed for the evening after getting the horses settled in.

Wednesday, Nov. 14, 2018 – More Rain

Another day of cold rain, cutting into our plan to leave today. Did little else except look after the horses and dialyze Hubby, though I did put a few things away in anticipation of our departure tomorrow. Temp supposed to get below freezing overnight, so hoses came in, along with whatever else I could pre-load. To bed early, for an early morning wake-up tomorrow!

Tuesday, Nov. 13, 2018 – Rain

Rain, rain and more rain today. Temps dropped overnight, so it ended up being a cold rain. Happy the horses were under shelter, but starting to get tired of the rain!

Monday, Nov. 12, 2018 – Veteran’s Day with Shopping

It started raining overnight, and kept raining all day today. Since we couldn’t ride, and we needed a few things, we decided to drive into Milton about 25 miles away for a meal and shopping. I had to take the hay out of the back of the truck and put it under the gooseneck. I only hope it doesn’t puddle under there too much, some of the hay’s gone a little moldy already from the rain we had the other day. Went into town to the Tractor Supply for a new manure rake (my old one kept breaking tines for some reason) and a few odds and ends, had lunch at a nice little Diner called Ace, and they let us hang around and do some computer work that I desperately needed to do. Finally a trip to Walmart for the rest of the items we needed, mostly things to help get our new “cabin” more organized, now that I’ve got everything in it. Miracle of miracles, Hubby decided to WALK around the store! That may not sound like much, but he hasn’t attempted to do that in over a year, always opting for a scooter cart to get him around, so it’s obvious that a horseback ride and a glass of wine (which he had for the first time in a long time last night) is the key to strengthening his legs! SO HAPPY! Got back to camp a bit later than we hoped, so his dialysis session started late and ended late, but we’re determined to be in bed early from now on, since it gets so dark so early these days! It will be better once we get into Eastern time, but at the moment, it’s pitch black by 5:30, even earlier with the rain! Well, it is well-lit here, so feeding in the dark isn’t too bad, just soggy lately. Off to bed around 10, later than we wanted, but as early as we could under the circumstances.

Sunday, Nov. 11, 2018 – Hubby’s First on the Road Ride on Flash!

Well, the day of reckoning has arrived! All of our efforts for the entire year has led us up to this day; buying Flash, working him all summer to calm him down enough for Hubby, trying to build up Hubby's stamina so he could handle riding, all of it, came to fruition today! After a light fruit breakfast, I got the horses saddled up and ready to go. Apollo was positively ecstatic about going for a ride, and was being very calm so as not to mess anything up. Flash stood quietly as well, taking his lead from Apollo, a trend I trust will continue! I had spent a little bit of time yesterday schooling Flash on standing at the mounting stairs that they have here, and though it took a few tries, Hubby managed to climb on and get settled without much trouble. I mounted Apollo and off we went! At the suggestion of our neighbor Joanne, we headed out on the blue trail, then the yellow, then took the orange connector to the red trail, for a loop that lasted just about an hour, all that Hubby wanted to do today. It went perfectly! Flash stayed behind Apollo or stayed even with him for the most part, but did get ahead for a few minutes at a faster gait, making me have to jog Apollo to catch up. Hubby was great! This little horse has such a smooth gait, he was comfortable in the saddle the whole time, and only started feeling any ache in his hips during the last 10 minutes or so, so it was perfect! We did have a little problem getting Hubby OFF, however. He's riding an Aussie saddle that his kind of a high cantle, and his legs are his weakest link right now, so he had trouble getting his leg over. Thankfully, several people rushed over to help him, and he fell into the arms of a very nice young man who had the strength to help him gently to the ground. Obviously, that's something we need to work on! What a special day! We took the rest of the day off, as it started to cloud over, and by evening, the rain had started to come in. Apparently it's going to sock us in for a couple of days, which is fine, it equals enforced R & R for me, which I need, as I adjust to the slower pace of road life. SO HAPPY!

Saturday, Nov. 10, 2018 – First Ride For Me on the Road with Flash

This very busy campground had lots of people tacking up and riding out early, as the weather is scheduled to turn bad tomorrow afternoon, but today is absolutely gorgeous! It didn't take me long to get Flash saddled up either, having fruit for breakfast before hitting the trail. Flash did brilliantly! Despite being in a totally new environment, he behaved himself very well, even staying on a relaxed rein for quite a ways at the beginning. Once we were warmed up, though, we started ticking it up a bit, and then he started to get excited again, as seems to be his style. We did a gentle gait, and a faster gait for quite a while, until we finally did a lovely nice long canter, which is so smooth, it's just wonderful! We spent about two hours on the trail, which ended up being over 9 miles on this speed demon! Got back to camp in plenty of time, chatted for a while with our neighbors Joanne and Mike, who live only 20 minutes away and so come here regularly (and who bought a copy my book :-), before going in and making a nice brunch for Hubby before we started his dialysis session. A fabulous way to start our latest road trip!

Friday, Nov. 9, 2018 – First Full Day on the Road Again!

After our exhausting day yesterday and the day before (and frankly, for the last several weeks!), we finally had a chance to come down a bit, but not until we moved the rig to the spot it should have been, and the horses to new stalls that were selected by the same staffer who had selected the occupied stalls for me yesterday, though he put me in the volunteer stalls just to keep things from getting more complicated. I then had to move everything down from last night's stall and clean them. It's been a while since I've had to muck manure, I'm out of shape for that! Eventually I got everything done, and we still hadn't had breakfast, so we decided to run into the nearest town of Jay for a meal and to pick up a few things at the grocery store for the weekend. We were back by 1:30, and for the first time in longer than I can remember, we sat down in our lounge chairs and simply relaxed. Aaaaah! We stayed that way until it started to sprinkle, at which point we had to re-cover the hay with the tarp, which we had removed so the sun could dry it out a bit. Dialysis next, then dinner, and a quiet evening watching the rain depart and the temps drop! Only downfall here is that the campground is in a little geographical dip, which makes a cell phone signal nearly impossible. I've been told there's a better signal up the hill, and near the office, but in our site, there's nothing! Not good, considering all the calls and computer work I need to do this week! Oh, well, that's a problem for another day!

Thursday, Nov. 8, 2018 – YIPPEE!! Back on the Road Again!!!

After weeks and months of preparation, at LAST we headed out on the road today!! It was a day later than we thought, but we pushed as hard as we could, and just couldn't make it out Wednesday, but we made it today!! Of course, nothing went as planned, as usual, but the sense of freedom to solve our problems and meet our challenges is palpable! We began to live in our new-to-us Trailer Rider Royal Custom 4-horse trailer with 20' living quarters last Sunday, to give us the opportunity to work out all the kinks and make sure we had everything we needed. Our friendly neighbors helped get Hubby's dialysis machine in, and we started dialyzing the same day, again, just to make sure we had everything we needed. Yesterday afternoon, our biggest concern was getting around the corner of the driveway. We've had a lot of rain, and the inside corner isn't that well graveled, and Hubby had a dream that we got stuck in the ditch and couldn't get out, so we decided to tackle that problem the day before we left so we had time to solve any problems. We did, in fact, have some trouble, and for a few minutes, we thought the worst had happened. As I went around the corner, swinging as far out as I could, the outside corner was so soft too, that my rear truck tires started to slide, which forced the trailer in the wrong direction and the rear tires of the trailer ended up just over the edge of the culvert when I finally stopped sliding. The trailer looked like it was right up against a tree, and I was afraid if I moved again, it would drag along the tree and be damaged. Upon closer inspection, we actually had about a half inch, and I took the chance of trying to pull it out one more time before we called for help, and thankfully, it pulled straight out of the ditch without touching the tree, and my fabulous GMC Sierra 3500 with it's brand new Michelin tires grabbed hold of the gravel and pulled the rig up the little hill that was our driveway. Whew!! You can imagine what an incredible sigh of relief we breathed at that moment! Though we weren't exactly level, we spent the night there anyway, because we'd already closed up the house and had only a few items left to bring out in the morning. We were awake bright and early, and were headed to Wind Creek State Park on Alabama, but there was rain in the forecast, and since we had hay on the back of the truck, we decided to get out early in the hopes to miss most of it, but as we progressed, we ran into quite a few patches of sprinkles. As we got further south, we took more note of the weather and realized that temps would be below freezing in Alabama for most of the weekend and into next week, and since the plan was to go south to stay warm, we took a longer view and decided to skip Alabama and head straight to Florida asap. So instead of arriving at our planned destination by around noon, we headed for the Coldwater Equestrian Camp at the Blackwater State Forest, a full service campground with lots of trails. We've stayed here before, but I honestly don't have any memory of it at all, and didn't even when we got here! While we had been dodging a lot of rain the whole trip, it really started coming down torrentially about half an hour before we reached the camp, so all the exposed hay got soaked. Thank goodness it's pack pretty hard, so with a little sunshine, should be okay. Unfortunately, even though we had made a reservation over the phone for our campsite, we were told we needed to arrange for horse containment when we got here. The folks in the office had left at 4:00 (it was 4:05 when we arrived!), but one remaining staff person explained I had to get the horses out of the trailer and put them away before we actually parked the trailer, as horses aren't allowed in the actual camping area. He said since we hadn't reserved stalls we should take the "walk-in" stalls, and gave me the numbers. In the pouring rain, I managed to get the horses out of the trailer (Flash's legs were wobbly, but he did all right) and began walking them down to the stalls indicated, which naturally, were at the far end of the row. When I got there, I discovered they were already occupied. I then went to two other stalls that he had initially suggested, and discovered those, too, were occupied. By now I was soaking wet through and through, and walking in ankle deep puddles that had taken over the entire horse area. All this while the rain kept coming down, and the light of the day along with it. In the nearly pitch dark, I just put the horses in a couple of other stalls until I could get it straightened out. I went back to the trailer and Hubby and I proceeded to get the rig backed into what we thought was our spot based on the numbers on the post (which turned out to be the wrong spot-the numbers were for the spot BEHIND the post) and once we got it backed in place, I went back to get the horses fed and watered. FINALLY I was done, and was able to get back to the trailer and dry out. Good news, having a clothes dryer is FABULOUS, I was able to put everything in the dryer. Finally settled in for the evening, but was disappointed there's practically no cell phone signal here, so Netflix isn't going to work. That's okay, though, we have lots of stuff stored on our Dish DVR, no shortage of things to watch! Beer and beer nuts was all the food we were in the mood for (we had a big Arby's lunch when we stopped for fuel), and finally were able to settle in for the evening!

Sunday, October 7, 2018 – Recovering From Skymont Weekend

Spent the weekend volunteering at the Skymont Endurance Ride, my third year there as a volunteer. Fortunately, there were no injuries, no trips to the hospital, no lost horses, and only one rider was temporarily lost the entire weekend, so it was a great success! As always, Lola kept everyone in the vet check area entertained for the duration. The senior vet, Otis, who’s a funny curmudgeon of a guy, but who has a reputation for being a bit tough at times (though I haven’t seen that much!), says Lola is the best behaved dog in camp, and is the only dog he’ll let stay in the vet check area. I always make sure she’s leashed up when the horses are coming through, but once it’s clear, out comes the chucker, out goes Lola, and everyone is amused by the leaping and jumping and running out to the pond that she does. The vet check area had a big pond in it this year because we’ve had so much rain this year, so the vet check area was move a bit to higher ground, though the trot-out areas were kind of rough. Anyway, it was a great event, I once again was asked to help emcee the awards ceremony. Yesterday, I decided to take Flash for a ride to see how he would do in the woods for a longer duration, so I trailered him up and ran him down to Skymont about 9:30. Most folks were either gone or about to leave when I got there, except the organizers who were doing some clean-up. Flash was pretty anxious about all the activity, there were still a few horses being walked around, and he was all excited and whinnying about that. I managed to get him saddled, but he was still too distracted, so I ran him around in circles for a bit, trying to settle him down. He finally did, so I climbed on and off we went down the purple trail. Wendy, the woman who tags the trails, had told me purple was probably the nicest trail with the least amount of rocks, and as I’ve discovered that my Cavallo #2 boots are probably too big for Flash, even without a recent trim, I wanted the least amount of rocks for him. We passed Wendy on the trail shortly after leaving camp, and headed out the supposedly 11.7 mile trail (though my GPS recorded 10.3, so I’m not sure). Flash was pulling and pulling, and I had a hard time keeping him down to just a medium gait, he wanted to go faster all the time. I thought he would eventually settle down, but he never really did! It was medium or fast gait the whole way, with the occasional breakout into a canter. We were in constant motion, I couldn’t get him to wait to save my life! I’m thinking maybe I’m going to have to put a curb bit on him, the snaffle just wasn’t enough to keep him from pulling my arms out of their sockets. When we cantered past the eleven mile marker without a single slow-down the entire trip, I really started seeing how great this horse would be in an endurance race. I honestly don’t know if he was loving it or hating it, I only know he went like gangbusters the entire trip! We left camp at 10:18 and arrived back at 12:45, a lot earlier than I had expected. Clearly, though, with some conditioning, he would be perfect for this kind of competition. Of course, judging by the way I felt when I climbed down, I’m going to need as much or more conditioning than he is! Lola certainly enjoyed herself, she had a faster trip than usual, which always makes her happy. By the time we reached camp, most of the stragglers had moved out, and it took no time at all to load Flash back into the trailer and come home. I heard Apollo whinnying when we were at the gate at the end of the driveway, and Flash and Apollo nuzzled once he got back in the paddock. I let them into the pasture, washed out the back of the trailer, put some stuff away, and came in exhausted! Once I cooled down, I started to try to dialyze Hubby, but wasn’t able to get a good arterial connection, so we ended up abandoning it for the day. Hate to do that, but I was just not able to succeed, and after three attempts at sticking him, it was clear I just wasn’t up for it today. Better luck tomorrow, hopefully! Whew, what a day!

Monday, Sept. 3, 2018 – YIPPEE! Hubby’s First Ride on Flash!

I was thrilled this morning when Hubby said he thought he was strong enough for a ride, so I saddled up BOTH horses, helped him mount his new horse Flash, and off we went! I was so pleased that the horses behaved so well. At first, Flash was hesitant to pass Apollo, he stayed at his flank for the first half mile or so. Eventually, we split to opposite sides of the road, and that seemed to give Flash some freedom, and he started walking a bit faster. Apollo and I had to jog to catch up, but it was GREAT to see Hubby back on a horse at last! He hasn't been able to ride since April of last year, as he's been dealing with a whole variety of health issues, but we're finally settling down to a routine and he's been improving greatly over the last few months. So glad he was strong enough for a ride today!! It was a short ride, just under 3 miles round trip, but it was enough for him and Flash to start to get to know each other. I've been a bit worried, because Flash can be a handful, but he's settled down nicely. He did get a little excited after we trotted a little, and then he wouldn't stand very well, but Hubby didn't have any problem with him. Such a difference from his old mare Clio, who was so slow, steady and bombproof! But he really enjoyed himself, and was so glad to be back in the saddle again, albeit for only an hour. His hips started to ache (likely from lack of use!), but that should take care of itself as we start to ride more regularly, hopefully. We also had a great day of dialysis in the afternoon, FINALLY finding a great place to start our buttonhole for the arterial port, after several weeks of false starts, half halts and plain old problems. But I finally found it perfectly today, and can't wait to create this buttonhole! That should make the whole process easier, finally, and should become routine before long. After 10 months of trying to nail down his dialysis access, I think the light at the end of the tunnel is getting much brighter, at last!! As soon as we finish making buttonholes, and get his catheter out, we're heading back on the road in our great big new (to us) Trailrider trailer! Can't wait!!!